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No. 003Philosophy & Ideas

Love Is the Original Act of Imagination

Tomiwa Ayandele1 min read

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A couple in traditional Edo coral beads and wrappers, the man embracing the woman from behind.
An Edo couple in traditional dress. Photograph: Kaizenify, via Wikimedia Commons (CC BY-SA 4.0).

Love does something to the mind that very little else can. It expands it.

The moment you love someone, you begin to see beyond what currently exists. You imagine who they could become, what you could build together, how the world looks when they are in it. Love makes you a visionary. Not because you are extraordinary, but because love itself is. It pulls your imagination past the edges of your present reality and forces you to reckon with possibility.

This is not limited to romance. You love a sibling and you begin to protect a future for them you have not yet seen. You love a friend and you start imagining what they deserve, how things should go for them, what you can do to make it so. Love, in any form, is the beginning of a vision. It is what makes you care about outcomes that have not arrived yet.

And it does not require anything in return to do its work. Love that goes unreturned still widens you. It still trains your eyes to see people differently, to hold more, to want more for others than they may even want for themselves. That generosity is not weakness. It is one of the most quietly powerful things a human being can carry.

The most profound demonstration of this is also the oldest. God loved the world and looked ahead at where humanity was headed, and he could not leave it there. The love he had was inseparable from the imagination of a better end. So he gave his only son. Not as a transaction but as an expression of what love always produces: a refusal to accept a lesser story when a greater one is still possible.

That is what love does. It fuels how we move through life. It shapes what we work toward, what we sacrifice for, and how we see the people around us. Love is not just a feeling. It is a lens. And the more of it you carry, the further you can see.

This essay was first published on substack.com.

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